Why You Will Fail To Have A Great Career

Law enforcement officer are you pursuing your passion while doing your job. I surely have enjoyed my 32 years career in law enforcement. Is law enforcement your destiny? Is it your dream job? Are you afraid? Watch the video below, it will make think about your career. Go for it, just like I did. Do not be afraid to fail and you will have a great career.
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Felix A. Montelara
LEO, Author, Speaker, podcast and Radio Host

In this funny and blunt talk, Larry Smith pulls no punches when he calls out the absurd excuses people invent when they fail to pursue their passions. (Filmed at TEDxUW.)

Larry Smith, Professor of Economics, University of Waterloo
A professor of economics at the University of Waterloo in Canada, Larry Smith coaches his students to find the careers that they will truly love.

0:16I want to discuss with you this afternoon why you’re going to fail to have a great career. (Laughter)

0:25I’m an economist. I do dismal. End of the day, it’s ready for dismal remarks. I only want to talk to those of you who want a great career. I know some of you have already decided you want a good career.You’re going to fail, too — (Laughter) — because — Goodness, you’re all cheery about failing. (Laughter) Canadian group, undoubtedly. (Laughter) Those trying to have good careers are going to fail,because, really, good jobs are now disappearing. There are great jobs and great careers, and then there are the high-workload, high-stress, bloodsucking, soul-destroying kinds of jobs, and practically nothing in between.

1:11So the people looking for good jobs are going to fail. I’m going to talk about those looking for great jobs, great careers, and why you’re going to, why you’re going to fail. First reason is that no matter how many times people tell you, “If you want a great career, you have to pursue your passion, you have to pursue your dreams, you have to pursue, the greatest fascination in your life,” you hear it again and again and then you decide not to do it. It doesn’t matter how many times you download Steven J.’s Stanford commencement address, you still look at it and decide not to do it.

1:50I’m not quite sure why you decide not to do it. You’re too lazy to do it. It’s too hard. You’re afraid if you look for your passion and don’t find it, you’ll feel like you’re an idiot, so then you make excuses about why you’re not going to look for your passion. And they are excuses, ladies and gentlemen. We’re going to go through a whole long list, your creativity, and thinking of excuses not to do what you reallyneed to do if you want to have a great career.

2:13So, for example, one of your great excuses is, “Well, great careers are really and truly, for most people,just a matter of luck, so I’m going to stand around, I’m going to try to be lucky, and if I’m lucky, I’ll have a great career. If not, I’ll have a good career.” But a good career is an impossibility, so that’s not going to work.

2:37Then, your other excuse is, “Yes, there are special people who pursue their passions, but they are geniuses. They are Steven J. I’m not a genius. When I was five, I thought I was a genius, but my professors have beaten that idea out of my head long since.” (Laughter) Mm? “And now I know I am completely competent.” Now, you see, if this was 1950, being completely competent, that would have given you a great career. But guess what? This is almost 2012, and saying to the world, “I am totally, completely competent,” is damning yourself with the faintest of praise.

3:20And then, of course, another excuse: “Well, I would do this, I would do this, but, but, well, after all, I’m not weird. Everybody knows that people who pursue their passions are somewhat obsessive. A little strange? Mm? Mm? Okay? You know, a fine line between madness and genius. I’m not weird. I’ve read Steven J.’s biography. Oh my goodness. I am not that person. I am nice. I am normal. I’m a nice, normal person, and nice, normal people don’t have passion. Ah. But I still want a great career. I’m not prepared to pursue my passion, so I know what I’m going to do, because I have, I have a solution, I have a strategy. It’s the one Mommy and Daddy told me about. Mommy and Daddy told me that if I worked hard, I’d have a good career. So, if you work hard and have a good career, if you work really, really, really hard, you’ll have a great career. Doesn’t that, like, mathematically make sense?” Hmm. Not. (Laughter) But you’ve managed to talk yourself into that.

4:28You know what? Here’s a little secret. You want to work? You want to work really, really, really hard?You know what? You’ll succeed. The world will give you the opportunity to work really, really, really, really hard, but are you so sure that that’s going to give you a great career when all the evidence is to the contrary?

4:49So let’s assume, let’s deal with those of you who are trying to find your passion. You actually understand that you really had better do it, never mind the excuses. You’re trying to find your passion,and you’re so happy. You found something you’re interested in.

5:07I have an interest! I have an interest! You tell me. You say, “I have an interest!” I say, “That’s wonderful!And what, what are you trying to tell me? That you — ” “Well, I have an interest.” I say, “Do you have passion?” “I have an interest,” you say. Your interest is compared to what? “Well, I’m interested in this.”And what about the rest of humanity’s activities? “I’m not interested in them.” You’ve looked at them all, have you? “No. Not exactly.”

5:35Passion is your greatest love. Passion is the thing that will help you create the highest expression of your talent. Passion, interest — it’s not the same thing. Are you really going to go to your sweetie and say, “Marry me! You’re interesting.” (Laughter) Won’t happen. Won’t happen, and you will die alone. (Laughter)

6:02What you want, what you want, what you want, is passion. It is beyond interest. You need 20 interests, and then one of them, one of them might grab you, one of them might engage you more than anything else, and then you may have found your greatest love in comparison to all the other things that interest you, and that’s what passion is.

6:25I have a friend, proposed to his sweetie. He was an economically rational person. He said to his sweetie, “Let us marry. Let us merge our interests.”


6:40Yes he did. “I love you truly,” he said. “I love you deeply. I love you more than any other woman I’ve ever encountered. I love you more than Mary, Jane, Susie, Penelope, Ingrid, Gertrude, Gretel — I was on a German exchange program then.” (Laughter) “I love you more than — ” All right! She left the room halfway through his enumeration of his love for her. After he got over his surprise at being, you know,turned down, he concluded he’d had a narrow escape from marrying an irrational person, although he did make a note to himself that the next time he proposed, it was perhaps not necessary to enumerateall of the women he had auditioned for the part. (Laughter)

7:34But the point stands. You must look for alternatives so that you find your destiny, or are you afraid of the word “destiny”? Does the word “destiny” scare you? That’s what we’re talking about, and if you don’t find the highest expression of your talent, if you settle for “interesting,” what the hell ever that means, do you know what will happen at the end of your long life? Your friends and family will be gathered in the cemetery, and there, beside your gravesite will be a tombstone, and inscribed on that tombstone, it will say, “Here lies a distinguished engineer who invented Velcro.” But what that tombstone should have said, in an alternative lifetime, what it should have said if it was your highest expression of talent, was, “Here lies the last Nobel Laureate in Physics, who formulated the Grand Unified Field Theory and demonstrated the practicality of warp drive.”

8:36(Laughter) Velcro, indeed. (Laughter)

8:42One was a great career. One was a missed opportunity. But then, there are some of you, in spite of all these excuses, you will find, you will find your passion, and you’ll still fail.

9:03You’re going to fail, because, because you’re not going to do it, because you will have invented a new excuse, any excuse to fail to take action, and this excuse I’ve heard so many times. “Yes, I would pursue a great career, but I value human relationships more than accomplishment. I want to be a great friend. I want to be a great spouse. I want to be a great parent, and I will not sacrifice them on the altar of great accomplishment.”


9:52What do you want me to say? Now, do you really want me to say now, tell you, “Really, I swear I don’t kick children.” (Laughter) Hmm? Look at the worldview you’ve given yourself. You’re a hero no matter what, and I, by suggesting, ever so delicately, that you might want a great career, must hate children. I don’t hate children. I don’t kick them. Yes, there was a little kid wandering through this building when I came here, and no, I didn’t kick him. (Laughter)

10:23Course, I had to tell him that the building was for adults only and to get out. He mumbled something about his mother, and I told him she’d probably find him outside anyway. Last time I saw him, he was on the stairs crying. (Laughter) What a wimp. (Laughter)

10:39But what do you mean? That’s what you expect me to say. You really think, you really think it’s appropriate that you should actually take children and use them as a shield? You know what will happen someday, you, you ideal parent, you? The kid will come to you someday and say, “I know what I want to be. I know what I’m going to do with my life.” You are so happy. It’s the conversation a parent wants to hear, because your kid’s good in math, and you know you’re going to like what comes next.Says your kid, “I have decided I want to be a magician. I want to perform magic tricks on the stage.”(Laughter)

11:23And what do you say? You say, you say, “Umm … that’s risky, kid. Might fail, kid. Don’t make a lot of money at that, kid. You know, I don’t know, kid, you should think about that again, kid, you’re so good at math, why don’t you — ”

11:39And the kid interrupts you, and says, “But it is my dream. It is my dream to do this.” And what are you going to say? You know what you’re going to say? “Look kid. I had a dream once, too, but — but.” So how are you going to finish the sentence with your “but”? “… But. I had a dream too, once, kid, but I was afraid to pursue it.” Or, are you going to tell him this? “I had a dream once, kid. But then you were born.” (Laughter)

12:14(Laughter) (Applause)

12:16Do you, do you really want to use your family, do you really ever want to look at your spouse and your kid and see your jailers? There was something you could have said to your kid when he or she said, “I have a dream.” You could have said, looked the kid in the face, and said, “Go for it, kid, just like I did.”But you won’t be able to say that because you didn’t. So you can’t. (Laughter)

12:59And so the sins of the parents are visited on the poor children. Why will you seek refuge in human relationships as your excuse not to find and pursue your passion? You know why. In your heart of hearts, you know why, and I’m being deadly serious. You know why you would get all warm and fuzzyand wrap yourself up in human relationships. It is because you are — You know what you are.

13:37You’re afraid to pursue your passion. You’re afraid to look ridiculous. You’re afraid to try. You’re afraid you may fail. Great friend, great spouse, great parent, great career. Is that not a package? Is that not who you are? How can you be one without the other? But you’re afraid.

14:07And that’s why you’re not going to have a great career, unless — unless, that most evocative of all English words — unless. But the unless word is also attached to that other, most terrifying phrase, “If only I had … ” “If only I had … ” If you ever have that thought ricocheting in your brain, it will hurt a lot.

14:48So, those are the many reasons why you are going to fail to have a great career, unless …


15:04Thank you. (Applause)


Frugal or just Plain Cheap!


Source| Yahoo! Finance

To call Dan Nainan frugal is an understatement. He lives in New York City, home to the world’s largest public transit system, but insists on walking. Everywhere. Sometimes for miles on end. When he travels he prefers to couch-surf, and don’t be fooled if you see him at Starbucks. He’s not ordering any lattes. He just stays for the free Wi-Fi.

Oh, and did I mention he’s a millionaire?

“There are two ways to become a millionaire. You either make a lot of money or be a frugal person,” says Nainan. “I’ve kind of combined those.”

Also see: Daily Habits of the Wealthy

In fact the 32-year-old has managed to save a whopping $1.6 million nest egg despite quitting his day job as a software developer five years ago to pursue stand-up comedy. He says what began as a hobby now earns him tens of thousands of dollars per appearance — money that mostly goes to savings.

“In my business, you never know when the phone will stop ringing. There are so many entertainers who are more successful and famous than I am, but they end up poor because they throw all that money away,” he says. “It’s very important to save for my retirement.”

Pay Little to Travel

Even if he gets a generous travel stipend, Nainan keeps his journeys cheap. “I took a $1 bus to Boston for a show I was paid $10,000 to do. I use Couchsurfing.com and AirBnB.com to stay for $60 a night or even free. Instead of taking a car to the airport, I take the AirTrain. A 10-ride ticket is only $25. ”

Respect Your Roots

“I’m half Indian and half Japanese. Both cultures are extremely, extremely frugal. Indians are especially known for being unbelievable tightwads. I guess it’s in my blood.”

Never Buy New

A self-described “gadget freak,” Nainan shops for electronics on eBay, often scoring items for one-fifth their price, and frequents the library for the latest best-seller and even language-lesson CDs. “I don’t buy new furniture. That’s for suckers. There are many people who put stuff on Craigslist, and then as their moving day approaches, they get desperate and give it away for free. That’s how I got…a bedroom full of furniture,” he says.

Do as the Millionaire Next Door

His million-dollar lifestyle may seem counterintuitive, but it’s pretty much by the book as described in Thomas Stanley’s best-seller, The Millionaire Next Door. After all, being frugal pays. Nainan spends no more than $10 on haircuts and $15 on dress shirts. And those run-down sunglasses? He’s had them for five years and counting.

No-Gifts Policy

Another way he saves? Nainan refuses to buy gifts for family and friends. “I’ve trained my friends and family for years not to expect anything from me and, more importantly, not to give me anything. There isn’t really anything I need. I live pretty simply.”

Nainan’s lifestyle is up for debate, but it’s clear that his choices have earned him millionaire status. Is it worth it? 


Do you Know The Millionaire Next Door?

The Millionaire Next Door accumulates 100’s of interviews within wealth ranking neighborhoods and discovers the habit so many of these wealthy individuals share. *A must read for success. I’ve provided the full audio book of the novel for you to listen to.

You will need about 8:45 hour to listen to this audio. If you do complete the audio book it will lead you to succeed with money. The authors of  The Millionaire Next Door make it clear that high income does not equal wealth. Want to learn more? Enjoy the audio book below. If you can afford it buy the book. it has great information that will lead you to financial freedom.

Felix A. Montelara

Book Synopsis:

In this New York Times best-selling book, The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America’s Wealthy, Dr. Thomas J. Stanley uses over two decades worth of surveys, personal interviews with millionaires, and data to reveal the secrets for building wealth in America.Amonzon Book cover

In The Millionaire Next Door, Dr. Stanley shattered the contemporary held beliefs about America’s rich – and how they got that way. It is seldom inheritance or advanced degrees or even intelligence that builds fortunes in this country. Wealth in America is more often the result of hard work, diligent savings, and living below your means. The Millionaire Next Door reveals the common denominators that show up again and again among those who have accumulated wealth.

Over 2 million copies of The Millionaire Next Door have been sold. And the book appeared on The New York Times best seller list for over three years. Based on interviews with Dr. Stanley, numerous articles about The Millionaire Next Door appeared in such publications as Fortune, Forbes, Money, U.S. News and World Report, The Limbaugh Letter, The New York Times Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and People Magazine. Dr. Stanley also profiled the typical millionaire next door while he was a featured guest on ABC’s 20/20, The Today Show, and The Opra Winfrey Show.



How Do I Build A Million Dollar TSP Account?

Mike Causey’s Federal Report

Here’s how to do it:

  1. Invest the maximum amount you are allowed (so you get the 5 percent government match) in the Thrift Savings Plan.
  2. Pick the right fund (or combination of funds). Stick with them, except when you need to change.
  3. Stir occassionaly for 20 to 30 years and wham, bam, you are a millionaire.

It’s been done. Seventy five current feds have TSP accounts worth a million or more, although most did it via the rollover route. .

So is the road to riches the stock market-index funds? It can be a bumpy ride taking you up and down depending on war, weather, economic conditions, the price of oil and even volcanoes in Iceland. Throw in the occasional asteroid strike to make it interesting.

Or do you get rich by playing it safe and sticking with the G-fund which invested in special U.S. Treasury securities that are not available to people outside the TSP? Its payoff is never heart-pounding exciting, but it has never had a loss.

Mike, an employee of the Department of Veterans Affairs takes the slow-but-sure approach. “Becoming a TSP millionaire can be done with zero risk strictly through investing in the G fund,” he says. ” cropped-lra-logo-blue.jpgThere is no need to invest in the risky C, S, and I funds. Just contribute the max each year (currently $16,500) and over a 30 year career you will exceed a million.”

Over the last 10 years the G-fund and the much-neglected F-fund (bonds) have outperformed the stock-index C, S and I funds. But when the CSIs have a good year (like 30 percent returns) it can be avery good year.


Rethinking Retirement For Law Enforcement Officers

Rethinking Retirement

By Felix A. Montelara

Source: The PotentialMillionaire.net

Law enforcement officers often retire after 20  to 25 or maybe 30 years on the job. If an officer starts a law enforcement job in early 20 he would be eligible to retire by the ages of 40  to 50 something.

 Retirement from law enforcement at this age needs to be planned. You most probably will have kids that are going to college. You will probably have a mortgage; therefore, your pension is likely not to be enough to cover all your living expenses.  And you will end up getting another and probably in some type of law enforcement capacity.

In the 1980’s, I spent seven years “State” type law enforcement agency and vested in the retirement system.  Years later after leaving the Puerto Rico Police Department, while working in a county Police department in Maryland in the mid 1990’s. I disregarded the reasons of vesting and pulled my money out of the Police of Puerto Rico retirement system and that was a mistake.

I later in the 2000’s I spent approximately 10 years with a county police department and vested in the retirement system taking a job in Federal law enforcement. This time I did not forget why I vested and left the retirement funds in the county police retirement system.  I made a decision of leaving the county police for new law enforcement job that would pay six figures plus for the next 20 years.  I figured, I would not have to deal with the stress of retirement and have to look for a new job at a lower rate of pay. making this part of my eventual exit strategy when the time arrived.

Well, here were are in close to 2015 and plan has generally worked out.

Montelara-Demick Family

Five out of my seven my children are adults and I have no mortgage.  As a matter of fact, I have no debt. As we all know the future is hard to predict. I do have two of my children that will be at college age at the time of my mandatory retirement.  I have developed a plan to cover those expenses through a 429 education fund for each child.

Today, I receive a reduced pension from the Maryland county police department an even have the option health care benefits.  I would have had a second partial retirement from the Police of Puerto Rico , but I took the money out of the retirement system.  The good  news, I never made the second mistake of cashing out the funds from the county police retirement system.  I am still employed as a law enforcement officer with about five years to mandatory retirement.

Many of my county law enforcement counterparts have retired from the county police department (PD) and many without a plan.

FormerChief Hilton, PGPD

Some have taken jobs with other local PDs. I know that some have even began to climb the promotional latter again.  Some have stated over has Chief of Police in local PDs, educational institutions and Hospitals. Some have gone into private industry with fairly good paying salaries. Not bad for someone that may or may not have had a  plan. However, I do know that most must have the second job due to the lack of a retirement exit strategy.  Some of these folks would like to stay retired but financially are not able.

Now there are a few counterparts that planned their exits from law enforcement and have become entrepreneurs owning their business in areas where they showed passion, while working the job they loved as law enforcement officers.  As one of county PD retiree told me, “I do what like and it does not feel like work.  I can quick; whenever, I want but Why?”

If you start over in another law enforcement career, private industry, or become a business owner the reality is that you have rethink retirement.  You have rethink what will retirement look like for you.

I ask you.  Do you have a plan for retirement?  Are you planning at least fives years ahead? If not begin planning your retirement today.  What does this plan look like?  lra logo  blue Everyone has an ideal retirement vision.   Define an area in your life for which you have a passion and begin the pursuing of it before retirement. This will allow you time  to see if your passion can become profitable.  Start networking with colleagues and friends to see if there any work that you want to do while in retirement.

At minimum get financially educated.  Start your process of becoming debt free. It will lead you to becoming financial free and you can live the life in retirement you envisioned.

If you have a retirement story and want to share it with this community for other to learn and grow. If you want to learn more feel free to reply to this post and sign up for future posts. You may change someones future. If you want to contact me here is my contact information:  fmontelara@potentialmillionarie.net or text me 334 357 6410.

Best regards,

Felix A. Montelara

Author, Speaker, Radio host and Blogger








I Got Robbed! By A Payday Loan Lender

Payday loans are  a type of loan in which you can borrow money and repay it the next payday.  A payday loan is an unsecured loan, for which you can be approved quickly but at a huge interest rate (should be illegal). The reason for the higher rates is the risk taken by the  payday lenders.

If you are in debt and work or live an area where payday loan establishments are accessible to you, take a good look at them and know that if you do business with a payday lender at the exorbitant rates of payday loans understand that it will be a bad financial decision compounded on bad past financial decisions that lead you to considering borrowing from a payday loan lender in the first place.

Here is an explanation of how interest rates are calculated:

  • Determine how much you need to borrow  then find out the  finance charge amount and the loan term. Once you have the amount figured
  • Divide the finance charge amount by the loan amount. For example, if you borrow $100 and the total amount of finance change is $10, just divide the $10 with $100 and you will get 0.1
  • Multiply  the 0.1 by 365 (the number of days a year), you will get 36.5 or if the loan is payable in 10 days then just divide 10 by 365 and you will get 3.65.
  • The number you get from step 3 must be multiplied by 100 for you to get the annual percentage rate  a.k.a APR that you will need to pay.

I have placed a payday loan calculator below.  Just plug in the numbers and you will see how the title of this blog  applies.   Let me explain: if you were to keep renewing the example loan from above over and over again because of need  your APR would be 365%. Compare that to a credit card cash advance or just borrowing from a friend at a double digit versus triple digit percent.  Its like being robbed!

At PotentialMillionaire.net we understand that payday loans are legal and a source of funding.  However, we also know that they are very dangerous for your financial health.  We only ask that you consider alternate routes of financing if possible.

Stay safe,

Felix A. Montelara